I can almost gaurantee that your local state's attorney would love to know about your ex. It's a great big deal in most states these days.

I know here in Missouri they will hunt them to the ends of the earth. They'll revoke driver's licences, garnish wages, do whatever it takes.

Call you family services or attorney general's office, I'm sure they'll point you in the right direction.

Good luck, and sorry you're going through this.

DJ