I think these comments are pretty harsh. I think after what has happened to you, you probably have a pretty good gut feeling about people. And if yours is telling you he really does care, then trust it. Guys who are just looking to get some do not drive you to and from class, ask how you are doing etc...

And remember, not everything needs a title. In fact, titles can mess things up a lot. I think it took over a month before my boyfriend and I had 'the talk'. Just go with the flow. Don't try to rush or pressure anything right now. You need to focus on your own happiness and dealing with the stresses from your past. If he helps you along that then that's awesome.