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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
I don't feel like I am on solid ground at the moment. My feelings go from knowing that I'm doing what I need to do - to feeling sad and sorry for my ex.
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Can you not do the two things at the same time? Doing what you need to do, while feeling sad and sorry for him? Maybe doing what you need for your own and your child's safety is also doing what is best for him? It might protect him from doing something foolish and getting him in more trouble. Maybe there is a way to brainstorm that with others -- find ways of doing both?