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Originally Posted by rainbow8
Sannah, it bothers me when you say we "all had dysfunctional parents who could not show us that they valued us."
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Why is that so many on here tend to blame their parents as the culprit to all of their issues? As adults, we have to accept part of the blame. Many of us have made bad choices that put us in situations that have caused alot of our issues. I don't blame my parents at all. I blame ME for making stupid decisions that have affected me, and will affect me the rest of my life.
I sure hope that my children won't end up in therapy blaming me for every issue they have. I apologize to those of you who did grow up in abusive and dysfunctional homes. This is not directed toward you at all. It just seems that the overall consensus on here is to blame the parents!