I think he sounds as if he is a caring person and as though he enjoys time spent with you.I do think however that a healthy relationship is mutually supportive...and that the two persons involved must be somewhat 'together' in order for a relationship to have strength.In other words...a relationship built on repairing another person can become old really fast.One needs to be 'in the throes of' pursuing healing for themselves.Be healthy enough emotionally to know that another person doesn't 'complete them'. Relationships need to contain many aspects to be full.This sounds a bit like a caretaker type thing.As far as 'friends with benefits' do consider what'd happen if one or both of you changed your perspective on that ...type of relationship.Both would end up frustrated.As far as que sera sera.....that isn't necessarily a bad thing...it is definantly leaving itself open to assumption of what that means.One could draw a ton of speculation from what HE means by that.I think you should go inside yourself and ask what you would really like this to be because in the end...those somewhat repressed ponderings will climb out and confront you.Whatever happens....just use your head and consider what you are feeling...and where its going.