I agree with TayQincy her, Rainbow. You may have 'known' intellectually that she wouldn't reply any more than what she agreed on (naughty T!) but you were acting as though she would. That isn't deceptive manipulation, but your behaviours were geared to achieving the results that you unconsciously wanted.
It is much like when you started with this T... you said all the right words about not wanting to attach to her, but in all your posts it was obvious that you were driven to achieving just that AND that you were not consciously aware of it.
I am not passing any value judgement on you here, hon... just saying what I observed, and bringing that pattern to your attention. We can't deal with what we are not aware of, right?