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Originally Posted by sunrise
Originally Posted by Luce
you said all the right words about not wanting to attach to her, but in all your posts it was obvious that you were driven to achieving just that AND that you were not consciously aware of it.
For example, this statement confuses me as I thought attachment (secure) in therapy was a good thing. 
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What I meant is not very clear, is it? I didn't explain myself very well. I very much believe that attachment in T is a good thing, and I was in no way trying to say that it wasn't. What I was pointing out was the self-deception - Rainbow repeatedly told us with words that she didn't want to attach to this T, but her actions and behaviours told a different story. She very much wanted it all along.