I've known for years that my husband viewed porn, but not until a few weeks ago did I check the history on our computers to see how very much he had been seeing. I counted over 400 views for just one day! I thought that was quite excessive. In an 8 hour day, he'd spend 7-1/2 of them on porn sites and then told me he was looking for work. I felt betrayed, not only by his lies, but his ever-increasing need to spend time on the computer and look at porn while I was downstairs, waiting for him to come and spend some quality time with me. Porn can be very destructive.