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Originally Posted by Kacey2
Ok Poet lets go back to your message to Rainbow about unconscious manipulation. Do you ever wonder if you could possibly unconsciously be manipulating PC so you get people to argue with you????????
Perhaps you should focus on your treatment as opposed to ripping
Rainbows to shreds! Or let me guess you have it all under control?
You were not involved in a discussion with me but you are also not having a private caring discussion with Rainbow either. This is a forum if you are going to blast off over and over again about borderlines and specificly Rainbow's individual therapy you will get responses from other people. If you want to have a constructive discussion with out others input you could pm her. I highly doubt she would want to though.
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She asked for comments. She complained when no-one commented. I commented on some very common behavioral patterns.
I am not unconsciously doing anything, because the fact is that instead of wanting to help a person "heal" you are supporting behavior that is in fact, doing the opposite. And you don't see it.
Now when her T puts another boundary in place, or the next email is not what she wants, there will be another post here about how she is so upset, rejected, let down, etc.
They are behavioral patterns that can be helped if addressed and looked at.