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Originally Posted by The Poet
She asked for comments. She complained when no-one commented. I commented on some very common behavioral patterns.
I am not unconsciously doing anything, because the fact is that instead of wanting to help a person "heal" you are supporting behavior that is in fact, doing the opposite. And you don't see it.
Know when her T puts another boundary in place, or the next email is not what she wants, there will be another post here about how she is so upset, rejected, let down, etc.
They are behavioral patterns that can be helped if addressed and looked at.
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No I did not support the email post. Nor did I encourage her or disuade her. I heard her. I listened to her. What I am guessing that I am seeing and you might not be is the acusitory tone you set in you responses to her. Supporting a certain behavior may indeed not be helpful and saying it in an offensive, crass way is also pretty ineffective.
Why is it not ok for Rainbow to post about being hurt and rejected and let down about t? Can't we just let her t do the analyzing of Rainbow's behavioral patterns? We are certainly not privy to her treatment plan. And Rainbow doesn't pay us! ***couldn't find the smartars emoticon.