Poet, my turn to sigh. You may be very intelligent and in the field, whatever that means, but you are still only 19. I doubt that you have a degree yet. I choose to trust my T over your advice to me. She encourages me to accept all my parts. I don't need to tell you about IFS, lol. If I need love from my T right now, then that's okay with her. I asked her if IFS and EMDR were contraindicated for BPD and she said "no". I am looking at my behaviors--plenty. She thinks EMDR will help more than IFS, but please don't tell me how it's not for borderlines. Oh, maybe you did already. WE--T and I, are working on helping my Self.

So what if I post again about being upset with my T. It's par for the course around here to be upset with one's T at times. Are you jealous?

Oh, I don't really want to have to defend my T to you anymore. If you are in the field, why doesn't anyone recommend a decent T to you? You've said you can't find one you like. Good luck!