madisgram: They do, Thanks so much! Also I did some searching and reading, and about 98% of the things listed under Codependcy are me... So I guess I have some more reading to do up on that, and figure out how to work on that issue.

perna: well... me and my roomie moved into her parents house to keep watch and tend to their animals while they are away. And apparently no matter what i do, the mother has a beef with me. Tho I am the one paying for things, such as rent to their daughter(roomie), and sharing my food with her, and much much more.
And I try to deal with my friend, but she keeps evading me when it comes down to me actually having enough and trying to talk to her, but then she calls her mom up or txts her and cries to mommy basically, with adding things that never happened, and making me look bad, which leaves me to deal with the mom who for a bit over a year ago, i veiwed as a parental figure myself, until she droped the "lets just be friends" bomb on me, to now where she pretty much hates my guts, and i still am clueless as to what I really did to piss her off so badly.
Yes, roomate is my friend who i'm living with.
We've been best friends since 2003, so we originally met in high school.
It's very long story, just because this slowly started over a period of time. To now i'm just this mean person who she cries to mom about-most of the things she says(the worst of them) is lies, and her mom blindly believes her. and whenever i try to argue my side with her (the mom) it always turns out worse than where we started, because i'm always wrong and her daughter is always right.. yet she can says shes gonna defend her daughter to the end and talk poooo about my own mother. Just thing is, I dont go calling my mommy over things, i deal with it like an adult- erm.. well... more so than calling a mommy up on the phone. She also will do all this to her mom, and yet tell her she wants me to stay, and i'm a friend to keep- while still telling her how horrible i apparently am *cant even count on my fingers how many times i've been told i'm a horrible friend to her by her mom, and how i am the one who is taking advantage of her sweet little baby*
sorry... got riled up there... and went into more ranting..
I think it'd be diffrent if she could actually validate her reasoning for seeing me as this horrible person, but all she does is repeat things that her daughter told her that weren't even true, so it leaves me completely baffled about it, and i see no use in trying to argue my side of it with her anymore.

I'm also in the process of trying to find some place to live... thats more suitable for me anyways (more in the city, where buses run and such - since i dont have a car, and now dont have a drivers linscens either.)