How is this combative regarding Rainbow?

She asked what people thought about her T breaking "a rule." I responded highlighting behavioral patterns that common place.

Why is it because I don't agree with what Rainbow wants to hear that I am combative? Why by pointing out patterns that are replayed over and over again here on PC am I combative?

And yes, I do have a degree.
And there are times when confrontation and directive response is needed with people.

And Rainbow, why don't you read about EMDR and IFS, especially at the studies about EMDR. Look at the studies from the VA. Look at the theory behind the eye movement and its role in healing of trauma -- and the reactions from trauma.

Read the randomized controlled trials that were done, which is a gold standard for research studies, and learn what EMDR was successfully used for.

If everyone looked over these postings in this forum, the patterns are there. Steps to getting better is to recognize what one is doing.