hey clouds and sun! everyone here is so smart, aren't they? i love all of the wise words you've been given... and i have a feeling that 2011 just might be YOUR year! how exciting! i live in my hometown, which is really a metropolitan city, and a few years ago i decided that i needed some new friends. have you taken a look at meet up dot com? (are we allowed to mention such things here? i'm not a paid promoter, promise!). it was a GREAT way for me to get out and meet new people who SHARE MY INTERESTS!!! whatever it is you like to do, there is a group for you. in my area, there is even a group for nicholas sparks fans. personally, i find that a little extreme, but you get the point there is something for everyone, even groups specifically for singles. you can get as involved as you want... it's up to you. change starts with you, babe! you've got this! and yes, definitely please keep us all posted!!!