Very good feedback here. Lots to mull over. My kids know bits and peices. Mostly my oldest daughter. She is pretty sharp. I just feel that my son is owed an explanation because I behaved so badley. I dont want him thinking that this is normal or that this will happen again.

I do understand that my son had no right to kick or bite me. My husband talked with him at length about that.

Thanks again for your advice. I really appreciate it.

Huggles,

Jen