lexi, you can always rant on forums! thank goodness for the internet, right? :-) based on what all you have said, i definitely agree that it is time for you to move out. while it sounds like you are a most magnificent friend, in future friendships you may want to have healthier boundaries. i can tell that you are sweeeeeet, so so sweet!!! it's too bad that your current roommate ("friend", if we can call her that?) doesn't see how great you are. time to find new friends who will cherish and appreciate you! you can do it!