I'm sorry, I know I'm the harshest one here. But let me try to explain something to you guys, maybe you will understand, and maybe you won't....and perhaps you will find something legitimately wrong with what I say. Ok, I believe we all have feminine and masculine qualities whether we are male or female. I could honestly say that there are some guys who I would find strangely attractive, but that does not mean I am gay...just because someone is attractive to me. We are attracted to certain qualities, and some people have those qualities more than others. It just doesn't make sense to me that just because you are attracted in any way to the same sex, that that means you're Bi or Gay. The main difference in Male/Female is the organs...one's got an inny, and another's got an outy. I know that seems a little trite and simple, but we are all unique individuals with certain things attracting us, but can we honestly have attractions based primarily on the organs? Even so...A gay does essentially the same thing with a guy, that he would do with a girl. Attraction is a very complex and possibly confusing thing. And I think people really rely too much on their feelings sometimes. I've imagined for fun what it would be like to be a girl, does that mean I'm gay? I think you just might be taking certain feelings and thoughts to an extreme and making them count for too much. I'm sorry to say, but maybe you just aren't emotionally mature all the way, or maybe you are simply cofused. It's easy to be in this day and age. But gosh, shoot me. I know I will be hated for this.