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Originally Posted by Perna
I would try to remember too, that your T is in the same situation you are? She doesn't know your husband at all; what if he asks a hard question of her she might not be able to answer or causes some sort of scene? She's there for you, and if he says/does something that threatens your well being she will have to step in to help you!
You're actually in the "best" seat because you have associations to each of the other two, you and T are a pair and you and your husband are a pair; each pair has individual, shared stories the other person not in that pair doesn't know about. They can't "gang up" against you because they have never worked together, haven't even met each other!
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Thanks; this is a good helpful way to look at it!
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Originally Posted by Sannah
And its okay to want to hide! If you feel this tomorrow and feel overwhelmed, just say it out loud. This is always so helpful to me. Can't wait to hear how it goes.
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Thanks! I will keep this in mind, too.....