Constitutional issue comes to mind, you have the right to choose how you want to live as long it's legal.
If your husband gets the job,you will be moving from Ohio to Alabama,so your church will change anyways?I may have missed this,but are you talking the school is under an entirely different sector of faith?
Tithes in many churches tend to be 10% of your salary.
Positive if you get the new life in Alabama,no more snow
To support your beliefs,you may lose short term,but you will have not compromised - u have to live with your decision,not the employer?
Tough decision.