After talking and arguing over confusing and confliting feelings I finally told him how i see it and was able to get my point across. I realize that he's not ready yet and either and I, till our lives are back on tract and he can work on his more personal problems, it isn't anything.
I've found another ride to school, I've become closer with my friends and I gave him back his jacket.
Thanks for keeping me grounded everyone, even though today sucked and i havn't gotten much sleep lately, I know things are gonna get better. Thanks for all the support