Right off the top of my head, I see two things; one on each side of the coin.

1) If you must be a member to hold a position in their school, why then not hire someone from the membership list??

So I suppose you'd have to transfer membership before they would even consider hiring him?? Ummm... nah! Something's fishy in Denmark.

2) IF he gets that job in another state, you wouldn't be going to your church anyway. Too far to travel for one Sunday morning service, right?

Do you suppose your home church would consider retaining your membership with them while holding membership at another church?

As for tithing... you give where you're fed... or you could tithe to the Salvation Army or any charity you deem worthy. Is tithing compulsory at this new church??? YIKES if it is! A tithe is 10%.

Erin... "behind every great man there is a great woman." YOU are, Sweety. Don't hold back!