Ben ~
Basically I've been waiting to talk about it in therapy. Our homework for the week though has been to talk to eachother about it instead of leting it pass. But I cannot stress enough how much I am scared of this. He blows up so easily lately. And I am scared of his reaction to what I might say even if it is in a healthy manner. And I cant deal with his violent reactions again. He's never hit me,but he has yelled at me and thrown things around the house. The throwing stuff happened this late summer. I just wish I could feel it getting easier ... and at times I do but I still feel such hesitation there to speak up about my feelings. Progress has been good , but I need it to be better and I think he does too on my part. Its so hard though sometimes with my problems and with how people in my life before him have had reactions that have been similar to his.
Thanks for replying.
Beth