I have long ago found that keeping and maintaining friendships with neurotypicals is not really an option for me, and frankly I do not miss that. I find it hard to understand them, they don't understand me at all. And we quickly run out of things to do or talk about.

I have a very effective antenna for people with whom I can build a mutual understanding and those are the ones I can build a friendship with. Often they are fellow ADDers or something similar. They are a very small number but they are worth a lot more than a dozen fakes.