Your T just sounds so reactive to me. He always sounds at the mercy of his feelings, rather than being reflective about them, and able to distance himself from them.

Who tells a client: 'I've had enough of your abuse and don't send me any more emails." ?????!!!!!

(And frankly, who tells a client: "after we've finished therapy we can go into business together." And didn't he have you doing some work for him at this point (I mean while you are in therapy with him?) (And was it compensated? -- bad either way.)

(Well, I know you like him a lot.)

-Far