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Old Jan 26, 2011, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Squiggle328 View Post
They get into these tiffs with each other over things that don't amount to a hill of beans!

I am the mediator, the one who gets things back on track, and hopefully does not hurt anyone's feelings.

If I do end up hurting their feelings, I have to tell them, "We are not discussing this anymore." And then, I let them sulk and boohoo until they get over it. By the next day, they are back to being best friends!
When you hurt their feelings you then say that you aren't going to talk about it anymore? And then you want them to just get over it?

Is this what you are doing to yourself right now too?

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Originally Posted by Squiggle328 View Post
Stubborn? Controlling? Why does she think that about me? LaDuh! Read my posts and you can plainly see that she is right! Sometimes I hate her......don't we always hate it when the other person is right!
She said that you are stubborn and controlling?
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