now that i again have to see Eric again at work....its freaking me out. i have somehow figured out that its healthy for me to not even LOOK at him! i feel that its better for me to stay away from him in all possible ways! those who have read my previous threads,would know that what mess i created in my obsession with guy. its the new year now,and i really dont want to repeat the mistakes. my friends have been telling me that he has been very nice and soft spoken with them lately (considering he was really RUDE with everyone except a few people)...i feel like somethings is being torn apart inside me... im so trying to get over this guy,and i had thought that i started feeling better,but i think thats just not the case. im still hurting!!and i hate it.

what is the healthy way to cope up with all this? i need ur opinions,i need ur help. my best friend is fed up of all the talk about this guy and i cant go to her for help.

thanks for reading,i really appreciate it!