well, as i said, my DH could literally pinpoint that yes, he loved me last Tuesday when we shared a special romantic moment. But that he "no longer has feelings for me" and is debating whether to leave me.

This is the second time he has gone through this, and as he came out of his "darkness" last time, he came home and was the same loving man. The emotions he showed for me didn't seem fake-able. Tears of joy, deep heart felt moments of love. When I asked him what made him "fall back in love" last time, he said nothing happened. It just was.

Its only day 3 this time since he told me, so I don't know what will happen. I'm trying to encourage him not to do any decision making, as I don't feel he is thinking rationally.