reader - we started in couples counseling months and months ago. She now sees us each individually when needed. I spoke with her last night, and she is trying to fit in a session for me this week if there are any cancellations. His next appt is the 2nd. We dont' have a couples scheduled out...and I don't think its the right time for that. I think we need to deal with his crisis as his crisis, and I need to deal with my coping as my problem. kwim? I hope my counselor can squeeze me in. she motivates me to be strong for myself and my children.