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Jan 26, 2011, 08:10 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Dearheart, why did you let this man do this to you?? You ARE a very pretty girl ~ you knew that before -- why don't you believe that NOW?? You haven't changed outwardly. You allowed him to change you inwardly. He took away your POWER -- you GAVE it to him. Now you have to TAKE it BACK!! And you CAN do this!  You had your power before ~ you need it now. Tomorrow you WILL get yourself made up and leave the house with your head held HIGH. Do whatever errands you need to do -- if you don't have any errands - then just take a short walk. But your head MUST be held HIGH. You will no longer allow anyone to abuse you - EVER. If HE says anything abusive to you, you will challenge him. What right does he have to call you ugly? You KNOW you aren't ugly!!! He's ACTING ugly.
From now on, you have the power to keep abuse from hurting you. You just won't allow it. And you will call someone to talk to -- a therapist if possible. Perhaps your County Mental Health has one on staff that sees you on the basis of ability to pay. In the meantime, know that you are as good as anyone else, as pretty (or prettier) than anyone else and you won't put up with any abuse ever again. You don't HAVE to. God bless & take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee
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