(((((Duchess)))))

You're right of course, it's hard, if not almost impossible to not notice an attractive woman, but I suppose the same is true too of women, to notice an attractive man.

And I admit, I'm an advid girl watcher ... woman watcher, but there are right ways and wrong ways to watch. I never stare at anyone - it's rude either way you look at it. I know it always makes me uncomfortable (of course, I seldom get stares), and I never insult my date by looking at another woman. But ... if I'm by myself (which, by the way folks) I am mostly, I look.

It's natural and even healthy. I'm alive and I guess as long as I am - I will look. But when I do, I am respectful of all concerned.

Beauty is a thing to be admired, and yes, one's outer appearance is the first thing we see, but, the real beauty one is to find, is in the inner self, and I for one, would prefer to see that inner beauty in the one I'm with, for one can sure be fooled by the outer beauty of a stranger - way too fast.

Thanks for the hugs sweetie - I likes em :-).

Sam (who looks over at Duchess sitting in that corner snickering at him and BP and thinks she's a beauty in her own right)

"You'll never know what you're capable of if you don't try."