what would you have to lose by "having discussions" for a while before you move, if it's in your budget ?- the least it might come to is to organize your thoughts toward a time after your move when you look for a therapist?

Hopefully you won't spend a lot of time wondering if you did OK. When someone you don't know is boring into you with his eyes and asking you a lot of probing questions, it's tough going for anyone.

about this >> I wanted to know if he had impressions
I thought this was excellent; you had a lot of courage and self-possession to ask that question (I could never have done it).