My dear friend,
If you think and feel it is better for you to move, well go ahead. Let me tell you something if I would have an opportunity to move with no children to stop me I would not even think twice about it.
If you are not happy where you are Pat, just move. You will find a job there. I know you will, you are very smart.
You might meet new friends, a companion.
I love you my friend. I want the best for you.

PAT