I want to thank everyone for the input. We have finally gotten to the point this evening that things started to bubble over. Though we did communicate this evening and get things out somewhat I want to work on getting to the point that we don't have to fight and get mad to get the issues out. He continues to take my comments as an affront to him. I don't blame him for the state of things right now. There are things that I have done that have made things worse and there are things that he has done. We are going to start seeing our therapist every week for a bit and hopefully that will get us communicating better.

Thanks Again