Needing help,

Thanks for posting. I can relate to your difficulties. My husband has not be officially diagnosed but we have discussed that ED may be a big part of our problems. I am thankful that we have had some ability to have intercourse at the same time when it does occur it is such a limited amout of time that it is very difficult for either of us to get much enjoyment out of the situation. Try to embrace the fact that your husband wants intimacy at all. At this point in time my husband doesn't understand that I would love intimacy with him in what ever form he is able to give it. Currently we are just friends that happen to sleep next to each other and that is not what marriage is about. Hope this is helpful at all.

Annie