My ex-husband of nearly 3 years texted me today. He said that he and his wife were pregnant.

Now, look - I am happy for them. Or as much as I can be. But we've been divorced for a while, and since we don't have kids together I don't understand why he tells me this stuff.

He texted me on my birthday, and on Christmas saying he was "thinking of me". My problem is that he should be thinking about his WIFE, and he's texting me. And then he texts today saying that they are pregnant, and that mum's the word because they haven't told his family.

I feel like he's taking jabs at me to hurt me. I couldn't give him children, and we knew that. I feel like he's rubbing it in my face. And I left him because I was unhappy, but he still texts like he gives a crap about me.

The thing is that I'm trying to move on with my life. Like I said, we've been divorced three years in April, and I don't understand why he'd tell me such personal things. He texts, I respond. But I am not comfortable with it, especially now that he's married. And now they're pregnant, and he's acting like I'm an old buddy that shouldn't tell his parents because they wanna tell them first.

Should I tell the current wife that her husband is texting personal information to his ex-wife?

Why is he doing this to me? I haven't told him to piss off because I feel like with him it would only add fuel to the fire. But he treated me like crap our entire 10 years of marriage, and now he's telling me how happy he is with his wife and now they're pregnant. Why else would he do this if he weren't trying to hurt me?