I can relate to this. I have DPD and have what my Psychologist calls 'a well of need' brought on by my parents not meeting my needs when younger.

Since I was a teenager I have found friendships very one-sided where I confide and offload all my troubles. My troubles are great as I swing from one crisis to another. Friends dont confide in me because they think I have too many problems of my own.

I have no friends now because I have learned that I cant help but ggive too much personal stuff away. Also I have allowed men to take advantage of me sexually because I was so needy and could not find any other way to keep them close.

Good Luck