Please read my profile about me and then read this message. Do Not Blame yourself. You all just got a crappy role of the genetic dice. My entire family (on both sides) covers just about every mental illness so far discovered (and a few I think we invented). My young friend is right. Get help for them and support for yourself as soon as possible. But, lose the guilt. You didn't ask for any of this and you're doing your best to cope. I really admire you for that. My daughter has ASPD. She actually got that one from her father. Really ironic when I think about everything I could have passed on. Anyway, ASPD makes for a real fun time. She's 32 now, still lives with me and my severely schizophrenic sister. You know the really crazy part? We probably laugh in one day more than most households in a week. We make fun of ourselves all the time. If I can be of any help anytime you PM me. Trust me, if it's crazy in some form I've either lived with it or seen it up close and personal. All the best in the world. AND DO NOT BLAME YOURSELF. Love to be your friend.