even with joint parental responsibility it took her 4 years to listen to anything we had to say in regards to any visitation, irrespective of what the family court said, she did what she wanted knowing we didnt have a legal leg to stand on, we tried to get her to agree a timetable, she just plain blank refused to listen to anything we had to say, it got to the point after a decade of trying that it became impossible to speak to that woman without feeling morally obliged to wipe out several generations of her family tree to stop the possibility of anymore of this type of woman being bred.

we have saved every single email that was sent and received back from her spanning 10 years, they are all relating to me asking for visitation, to setting up some kind of regular visitation schedule, or even are we going to see him at all this year. she would normally not reply until after the day i suggested with was going on holiday that week, something else the next date suggested, then her moms for the next weekend, wedding, funeral, excuse, excuse, etc. had to wait until she ran out of excuses for me not being able to see him, persistence we do do.