Kimmy, I reread your post...so I'm having to guess that you didn't answer the phone but heard her message? You could call her at the hospital... make sure her dad has you added to the allow listing... she might be able to share with you something she is holding back from IRL...and might need to face while she is in a safe place?

Anyway, you could write to her... that would be safe for you, too... and still be beneficial to her. You are still there for her (though you may have learned how to keep yourself safer over the years...) TC