sounds like he's like a bunch of ppl who may be male or female. have a sister like u described. think it's not being a man, imho, but more like just some ppl having their heads in a hole, don't problem solve, etc. u on the other hand sound like you are realistic and take responsibilty for your life. perhaps he's not the one for you, idk, but i'd be frustrated with someone like this if i was in a relationship with them.
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