Your concern is noted, but the guy is 17, not 12. We're not talking about a child here, but a nearly grown adult who has some legitimate questions regarding his sexuality. This is a support forum in which to do so. Suggesting to people that it might not be beneficial to offer our opinions kinda defeats the purpose of the forum, don't ya think?

In the future, if you have specific concerns of this nature, it might be more beneficial to express them to one of the board moderators privately. There's no better way to derail a thread than with off-topic posts.

DocJohn