Thankyou everyone. Feeling a bit better this morning. Funny how things always seem worse in the middle of night! Rapidcycla, Heather is seeing a paediatrician who has consulted a rheumatologist and infectious diseases specialist. Heather has had heaps of tests which have all come out negative. The theory is that she has reactive arthritis and will eventually get better, but that is only a diagnosis of exclusion. She has also been referred to a clinical psychologist, supposedly to help her to cope with the chronic pain and fatigue, but I still wonder if they think she is exaggerating her symptoms (and so do I!).

She's also seeing a physio. She has lost muscle strength after being sick for so long, which doesn't help with her aches and pains.

Can't Stop Crying: I so totally agree with you. I often feel guilty for not being stronger. I try my hardest but sometimes I really need an instant recharge of emotional strength. Its something I often feel really guilty about, that I cant cope with everything 24/7 and be there for my hubby and daughter.

Thanks again.
Sarah