Thank you all for your input, and I know you are right about many things. I left him because he treated me like crap, but we were married 10 years. I left him because I got tired of walking on eggshells, and now he's telling me all this personal crap about him that has NOTHING to do with me.

I think it is time for me to be harsh and tell him to f--- off. I don't see any other way to get through to him. Regardless of his happiness in his marriage, he is married - and I don't understand (nor do I want to) why he's letting me know anything!! I want to tell his wife, but that would spiteful and I don't want to be THAT kind of girl...

Again - thank you for your input.