I'm so sorry about that! That sounds awful! And I know how hard it is to get a job!

The best thing to do, I think, is to find something small for a job. Work somewhere part-time. It will get your mind off things at home, and with going to school and such I would imagine even that would be taxing.

Your parents are trying to control you and make you feel like you can't ever leave home. It seems like they don't want you to be independent. By calling you dumb and that you'll never find a man is extremely belittling, and you have every right to speak up for yourself - but I bet you're afraid to do that.

But you have to. No one else can stick up for you but you. You're 20! I don't understand why they are making you feel so insignificant!

But remember - you're not. You're with a good guy, and you're happy. Don't let them take that happiness from you. And methinks soon that they will need to be confronted with this information.

Take care. Let me know how you are doing...