You've helped a lot, Ygrec. Thank you.
Wolfsong, it's a fact of life that some,
not most, people are nasty and evil-intentioned. I keep forgetting sometimes that these people would probably not have the guts to act the same in person as they act online. They hide behind their computers like toddlers hiding behind their mothers. And they probably have about the same maturity level too.
It is important to remember the "not most" part, which is why I bolded it. By far, the majority of the people in this world have good intentions and want to help others rather than harm.