Sounds like she has a problem with technology addiction. My bf used to be the same way. Whenever new games come out like Call of Duty I just expect to be ignored for about a week or so. But after that, I will be a *****.
He used to bring his iPod to bed! He would act like he was sleeping and I would look over and he's on his stupid iPod! So one day I told him "If you bring that thing to bed one more night you will come home and it will be in pieces after I smash it with a hammer." He said I was bluffing and I said "try me" and he quit bringing it to bed. He hasn't brought it to bed since.
And if he ignores me for video games I will send him one of those youtube videos of the girlfriend smashing the xbox or something. I don't do the whole crying asking for attention thing....I go straight for the smash lol
I don't know if that's good or bad but it's effective. Sometimes that's the only way to get through to someone who is that into technology. If she doesn't respond to that, then it might be time to ask why you are with a girl who obviously ignores your feelings and needs.
You definitely deserve someone who gives you what you need. It doesn't sound like you seem overly needy or obsessive - you just want your basic human needs met. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. I know how frustrating it is and how terrible it can make you feel. I hope you can finally get through to her because you don't deserve this.
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