Myzen,

Seems like you have a full plate with seconds. WOW. I think that you did handle each situation pretty well. So, please give yourself a pat on the back for that.

I also am a people pleaser, or at least I try to be. However, lately, setting boundaries is my thing. I need to do this for me and perhaps this is something you need to work on as well. When I find myself faced with a triggering situation, well, I cant really answer that because I think I avoid everything I deem to be triggering. Although, things pop up from time to time that do trigger me and I usually remove myself from the situation. Perhaps I am not dealing with it in the healthiest way but right now, that is all I can do.

Back to you, I'm sorry, I can get carried away. I would work on your boundaries. It is ok to say NO. Really it is. I know for people like us, it is hard but you need to put your needs first for once. Please yourself Myzen, then please others around you.

Take care my dear friend.


Huggles,

jen