(((((((((((((((((Lady D)))))))))))))))))
I too am married and also had a 3rd party at one time. It is not an easy situation for anyone. Not you, not your hubby nor the 3rd person. As LMo said above, perhaps this person was attracted to you and not your hubby and knew that you and hubby were committed and didnt want to interfere with that. I know how hard this is. I am sorry that you are hurt. For me, I developed feelings for the 3rd person a little more then I should have. Therefore, I was the one to end it because in the end, my husband comes first, always.
I wish you luck with this Lady. Please do PM me anytime.
Huggles,
Jen