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Well, good to know you are not crossing the line in a teacher/student scenario. But further, you are a parent, and married to a MAN! You want to incorporate a third female party into the arrangement. Why get married at all if you have such conflicts. It's no wonder this female student is confused and acting in destructive ways. You can't have it all ways and not hurt people, Lady.
Seeker

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This seems to me to be a bit harsh of a statement. I understand to someone on the outside looking in, it may seem this way. For others, who choose to have this tyoe of arrangment in their marriage, it is not so cut and dry.

I am not starting an argument here, I just think that Lady D was looking for advice, not judgment.