First I would like to say hello to everyone! I looked around the site and it strikes me as very helpful and the forum very supportive and friendly.

Right now Im going through a very very chalenging time and never in my worst nightmares thought to find myself in this horrible position.I dont know how to "deal" with this, if there even is a way to do that! Recently my husband *was, just out of the blue, arrested for sexual assault of a 14 year old girl. The allegations against him were absolutly disgusting. He was not found guilty by the judge, but the process of it all has been very difficult for me mentally.Now barely two months later he is being investigated for multiple rapes and murders. I feel like my entire life is falling apart around me. The investigation and implications are beyond frightening and my mind has been so jumbled by it all ! Our marriage has been in jeopardy as it was for the past year and now with all of this on top of it I just dont know what to do. Thank you for listening